Creativity Crush

My instinct to discover and create comes almost constantly. It's like love. I just want to stare in it's face all day and when I can't it's torture so I have to find new ways to explore.

I just wrote a short play about punching a colleague in the face.

I need to lay on a mat like a kindergarten nap.

"The hip bone's connected to the..."

I think Perez Hilton was a little quick to jump on the name-calling train to Miss Cali. He had good points but I think his anger got in the way and now every clip of him has been edited to a sound bite of the 'B' word. But hey girl, this is America, thank goodness, and we are all allowed to love and hate each other as much as we want.

I can't even be angry at the Miss California's anymore. If your organization needs Miss T & A to make your point, your point must be a little difficult to make on it's own. Of course I think it is absolute lunacy that our country: founded on freedom FROM persecution supposedly with laws based on separating one's faith FROM one's government, actually has to pause and contemplate the validity of joining two adults in matrimony.

[Cue Wedding March.]
Are they of age? Check.
Are they of sound mind and body? Check.
Do they have all the right parts? [Record scratch. Silence.]

What if...two consenting adults of sound mind and body wanted to get married, but one of them had been in a car accident deeming him/her sexless? Would they be allowed to get married?

Or how about hermaphrodites? Can they get married?

I used to work for a man and woman who had a Star Wars wedding. They both went as Darth Vader. I'm not kidding. Is their marriage legal? They both dressed as men...or alien men...or something...and they were still allowed to jump the broom. Why does that count? And aren't parents allowed to give consent for their underage kids to marry in some states? I read that somewhere. I also read that our brains do not fully develop until we are 22. I would think that means we are not of 'sound mind' until then. But it's OK if our parents are? There are parents who SELL their children...but that is a whole other rant...

I just don't understand discrimination. We all silently judge each other and ourselves every second of every day. Shouldn't The UNITED States be the thing that levels the playing field? I guess we're only human. That is asking a lot. Unions have an agenda too.

I suppose certain rights are inalienable...depending on where you were born.

Life in the Fast Lane

Security is mostly a superstition. It does not exist in nature, nor do the children of men as a whole experience it. Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than outright exposure. Life is either a daring adventure or nothing. — Helen Keller

Greg and I recently moved to a new apartment in our same building. We went from the fourth floor to the second, a living-kitchen-bath room to a separate foyer, separate kitchen, and a bathroom that isn't next to the stove...higher ceilings, quiet neighbors and a lot less rent. Who could say 'no' to that? Of course, we had just moved a year prior and had not planned on going through that again for a long long time and of course I had JUST decided I was going to be a martial arts expert and thrown down cash for a month-long course...I went once.

I think it is safe to say we are finally settled. Settled enough to go about our daily lives again but not settled enough to give back one of two mail keys for our old apartment. Big Brother doesn't know we still have it. I think it's illegal but we can't depend on the forwards to find us in time for the big Publisher's Clearing House payout!

We've established some dog rules for the new pad. Stewart now has a 'Crate'...a 'Den'...a little 'Cage'. We put him in there when we leave the apartment so he won't try to hang himself from the shower curtain rod when a fire truck goes by. He got used to it pretty quickly and now he even voluntarily goes in there...I suspect just to get a treat but hey, he's a dog. If every time I washed clothes someone shoved a spoonful of ice cream in my face I'd probably show up at the laundry a lot more often. I've also established a spontaneously new-found dog rule: no dogs other than Stewart in the house. Not because I'm afraid of them or them eating our dog, but because it is flea season and I don't want their little friends eating our dog...or us for that matter. The other day an old neighbor stopped by and had 'just come from the dog run' with his big, hairy beast. We quickly came up with a poor excuse about touch-up painting or something and made the dog stay outside the front door.

That night I purchased Sergeant's flea & tick pesticide for small dogs from Duane Reade and that night I poisoned our dog. Every year I've purchased a similar product for every year I've had a pet. Fleas are bad. I learned that the hard way in a little apartment I had in LA about 15 years ago. Two cats. Two humans. Two million fleas. Never again. What really struck me about this incident was that you can do something you think of as basic housekeeping year after year and never really think about it...

...until you watch your dog behave like he has been possessed, listen to him whimper, foam at the mouth, not eat and constantly try to bite his own skin off. I think we surpassed the total amount of baths we've given him in his life time in that one evening.

I think about things like my mother smoking through both of her pregnancies; the time my girlfriend and I 'laid out' to get some sun [sans sunblock of course] in the back of our friend's pick up truck, going 90mph on a two-lane, West Texas highway; my brother taking God-knows-what in the bathroom at the club when he was a teenager...

I didn't know that part of getting older was about waking up to all the toxins of the world! I already knew my '...sigh...kids today...' music/cussing/volume ear was developing but now even more than ever my '...groan...corporations today...' eyes are stinging. I called the hotline on the back of the Sergeant's box and the operator sounded like she was helping me through building a paper airplane. CLEARLY this situation is common. There is a HOTLINE to talk you through de-poisoning your family pet. They've hired operators to deal with just that. I don't know what I'll do the first time my kid gets food poisoned. I might end up in jail.

But see.....I can't make up my mind.

There is the other side of me that wonders just what was so wrong with all those scary things we did before we knew any better? Ignorance is bliss! No helmets, no seat belts, no smoke-free airplanes!

There is a rapidly growing group that wants to take Dodge-ball out of schools. Dodge-ball is the PERFECT metaphor for life!!! I think it's great we got to practice how to get dumped, fired, robbed and laughed at with a two ounce rubber ball. How do we prepare our kids for the real world when we continually make it virtual?

[New thought: Is our world less real now that it is so virtual?]

There is an elementary school in the mid-West somewhere that has a 'no touching' policy. Kids have to 'air five' each other when they want to congratulate one another. No hugging, no pats on the back...no Patty-Cake! Doesn't that stuff backfire on us? We know the 'ol Catholic-school-girl, son-of-a-preacher syndrome. Aren't those kids going to get shipped off to High School and aren't those kids going to show up to school one day with a handgun because someone slapped them on the back the day before?

K. I'm being an alarmist. I know. I should stop all of the negative, fearful thinking. I should relax.

BUT I'M 36 AND I POISONED MY DOG!!!! I DON'T EVEN HAVE KIDS YET!!!!

[For the record, Stewart is fine. A little bald on top but we tell him it makes him look distinguished.]

...all I ever wanted...

I will be 36 in two days.

Now that I am grown up, I am going to promise myself a vacation every year...even if it is in my head.

Happy Birthday to me on Mars.

My Wallet Has More Vacation Time Than I Do

This past Saturday my wallet fell out of my back pocket. After making Greg go with me to re-trace my steps throughout Chelsea, I finally gave up. I had already canceled my debit card and was already calculating the cost of things to replace. Not to mention the CASH I'd JUST put in there.

Sigh.

But worse things have happened. [Of course they have.]

Sunday morning I get a call from a friendly voice. A woman had found my wallet and had it with her but she was about to get on a plane. I could pick it up Tuesday morning. Which I did.

EVERYTHING was still there. Including the CASH. I tried to give her some of the money but she looked at me like I had eight heads and literally walked away waving and smiling.

People is good. People is nice. [Of course they are.]

Moving, Crate-Training, Job Adjusting, Auditing, Doctor's Offices

Yesterday I was replying to an admin at work explaining why I hadn't gotten back to her the day before. My finger about to click 'send' I caught this:

"My apologies for not getting back to you sooner. I've been thin kind of spread these past few days."

I hit send anyway.

Imitating Liart

The sun is creeping out. The artists, the tourists, the fashionistas and celebrities are all strolling around SoHo.

I spot a little [Swiss?] family on a street corner taking pictures. The Mom out front instructing the rowdy little boys to stand still and close to the stroller. She counts to three and at the last second, the smallest little guy, sans stroller...has to be at most 4 years old...throws up a full out GANGSTA sign for the picture.

For the second picture he makes a 'V' with his first two fingers, holds it up to his mouth and sticks his tongue out. Yep. THAT sign.

Clearly he, nor his mother have any idea where those symbols come from.

Either that, or they are the first full-out Swiss Peace Keepin' High Rollin' Gangsta Bashin' Pussy Lickin' Family ever. Look out Bradys.